Resources for Single Adults - Enjoying the Journey

This page provides resources for single adults who are faithfully navigating their current season of life while waiting for the person God has designed for them. Understanding that this journey requires both patience and intentionality, the page offers a curated collection of materials to support your spiritual and emotional growth.

The resources found here provide encouragement for the heart and helpful guidance for practical living, ensuring that your time of singleness is not just a period of waiting, but a purposeful time of preparation and deepening your relationship with Christ.

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Principles for Finding God’s Choice for Your Life’s Mate | Video Series

By Scott Pauley | May 26, 2026

Finding God’s Choice for Your Life’s Mate “I will instruct thee and teach thee in the way which thou shalt go: I will guide thee with mine eye” (Psalm 32:8). Everywhere I go, I am approached by young adults who want to serve God during their single years. While Scripture teaches that some people are…

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1 Corinthians 7 teaches that singleness, whether by choice or circumstance, is a divine gift and a sacred season of life, not a problem to be escaped. God's will for every individual—whether single or married—is perfect, and that true fulfillment comes not from external circumstances but from a life of faith in obeying God's call on your life...each day.

This message continues Scott's two-part series from 1 Corinthians 7, which helps us understand that God's will for every individual—whether single, married, or widowed—is sovereign, purposeful, and sufficient, with each season of life marked by God's grace and providence.

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Articles

Journey Through Titus

By Scott Pauley | June 1, 2026 |

Journey Through Titus The island of Crete was known as a barbarous place. It was full of people who were liars and corrupt. Morality there was at an absolute low. In the midst of that place, God built a church. I am glad God always has a people! God is taking out a people for…
Principles for Finding God’s Choice for Your Life’s Mate | Video Series

By Scott Pauley | May 26, 2026 |

Finding God’s Choice for Your Life’s Mate “I will instruct thee and teach thee in the way which thou shalt go: I will guide thee with mine eye” (Psalm 32:8). Everywhere I go, I am approached by young adults who want to serve God during their single years. While Scripture teaches that some people are…
Divine Friendship

By Guest Author | June 17, 2025 |

Divine Friendship “A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly” (Proverbs 18:24). “And the LORD spake unto Moses face to face, as a man speaketh unto his friend” (Exodus 33:11). Divine friendship; while it is of little interest to the creature, it is of great importance to the Creator; “And the LORD God planted…
The Ministry of Friendship

By Scott Pauley | June 14, 2025 |

The best friends are praying friends…friends who tell you what you need to hear…friends who want you to have a good day when you stand before the Lord. Yes, a good test of a good friend is this: Do they help me to be more of what God wants me to be? Proverbs 27 identifies characteristics…
Encouragement for Single Adults

By Scott Pauley | April 26, 2025 |

Encouragement for Single Adults For a time in our ministry, Tammy and I had the privilege of working in the single adult department of our church. We had watched many of these young adults come through our youth ministry, and it was a joy to see them continuing to grow in Christ. One Sunday, a…
Journey Through Acts

By Scott Pauley | January 15, 2025 |

Journey Through Acts Overview: Some people have called it, the Fifth Gospel. It is called in our New Testament, the Book of Acts. Most think they are the acts of the Apostles; in reality, they are the acts of God, through the Apostles. It is the book of Christ continuing His work in this world…
Friends From Gath

By John Buckner | December 10, 2024 |

Friends From Gath “And David arose, and he passed over with the six hundred men that were with him unto Achish, the son of Maoch, king of Gath. And David dwelt with Achish at Gath, he and his men, every man with his household, even David with his two wives, Ahinoam the Jezreelitess, and Abigail…
The Luggage of Life

By Scott Pauley | November 25, 2024 |

It is my privilege to do a great deal of travel. Through the years I have learned it is best to travel light. Luggage slows you down and weighs you down. Especially on airplanes! The journey is much more enjoyable with as little baggage as possible. This principle is true in all of life. Getting…
Everybody Needs a Friend

By Scott Pauley | October 16, 2023 |

Everybody Needs a Friend Some time ago I walked somberly through an exhibit that showed the horrors of Auschwitz. It was a stark reminder to me of how hatred consumes darkened hearts and how much pain it can inflict on others. We all would do well to remember that in these days. Near the end…
Christians You Should Know: Charles Wesley

By Micah Hendry | July 19, 2023 |

“Speaking to yourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord; Giving thanks always for all things unto God and the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ;” – Ephesians 5:19-20 Listen to Charles Wesley’s story on Traveler’s Tales A Snapshot of the Life of…
Christians You Should Know: George Whitefield

By Micah Hendry | May 31, 2023 |

“Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God. Marvel not that I said unto thee, Ye must be born again.” – John 3:3, 7 A Snapshot of the Life of George Whitefield: Born: Dec. 16, 1714 – Gloucester, England…
The Tragic End of a Treasured Man by Pastor Scott Hooks

By Guest Author | January 9, 2023 |

Enjoying the Journey has many friends in the ministry who help and encourage us along the way. Pastor Scott Hooks has been a constant encouragement to this ministry. He is a faithful pastor with a heart for God’s people. We are happy to provide you with this article written by him. One of our goals…
5 Reflections on Life and Death

By Scott Pauley | November 19, 2022 |

This year has been a year of loss. In God’s economy, loss is so often gain if we are ready to receive it. Somewhere in the midst of loss there is grace that God will give and wisdom He wants to teach. When we are forced to look at death, we must reflect on the…
Love Is Not Just for Couples!

By Scott Pauley | February 25, 2022 |

There are varying expressions of love – friendship love, marital love, love for enemies – but there is only one Source of love, and that is the God who “is love” (1 John 4:8, 16). Over this month there has been a great deal of emphasis on romantic love. (As a husband I must confess…
What Ever Happened to the Love of David and Jonathan?

By Scott Pauley | October 27, 2021 |

Satan and sin pervert every good thing given to us by God. At this moment many in our generation have come to believe that “love” between two men or two women must be sexual or romantic in nature. Love has devolved into lust. Little children are being told that if they have feelings for another…
The Danger of Isolation

By Scott Pauley | August 9, 2021 |

Depression is rampant and suicide is on the rise. One of the factors feeding this tragedy is that so many people are very alone. We are the most technologically connected and the most personally disconnected generation in the history of the world! All too often when we face disappointment or discouragement we all have the…
Your Best Friend

By Scott Pauley | July 28, 2021 |

As a child it always seemed important to have a “best friend.” I don’t know all of the reasons, but there is in all of us a desire for closeness and connection with someone. God made us to be social and relational beings. Sin, on the other hand, perverts that in so many ways and…
An Idea for Your Christmas Cards

By Scott Pauley | December 11, 2020 |

Have you sent out your Christmas cards yet? Through the years it has become increasingly difficult to send cards to everyone that we love and want to greet. For the last several years we have simply given cards to family and send greetings by media and email to many others. However you may send your…
How NOT To Choose A Mate

By Scott Pauley | January 28, 2020 |

When I was a young man someone told me, “Choose only a date who would make a good mate.” That was good advice. A casual relationship can quickly turn into a serious one. Friendships often become lifelong commitments. There are many choices in life, but few have more lasting consequences than who you will marry.…
The Danger Of Being Around Good People

By Scott Pauley | November 6, 2019 |

I often hear it said, “They are good people.” This is a subjective statement, of course, because it is filtered by the person’s standard of goodness. We know from Scripture that “there is none that doeth good” (Romans 3:12). The Apostle Paul, by any measurement, a good man, testified, “In me (that is, in my…